The short version: there are no accounts, no ads, and no trackers. What happens at the party stays in the server's memory for a few hours and is then gone. Last updated August 24, 2026.
Bride Society has no sign-up and no accounts. We don't use analytics, advertising pixels, or any third-party trackers. We never see or store card numbers — payment happens entirely on Stripe's secure page.
When guests join a game they type a first name, and during play they submit answers, guesses, drawings, and (in one game) anonymous confessions. All of that lives only in the server's working memory while the party runs. It is never written to a database or a log, and it disappears when the room closes — at the latest about 12 hours after the party started. We couldn't hand it over or recover it afterwards if we wanted to.
Custom questions you write in the editor are saved in your own browser (localStorage on your device) and, while a party runs, on that party's room in memory — same lifetime as everything else.
Checkout is handled by Stripe, which processes your payment under its own privacy policy. From Stripe we receive the email address you paid with, and we store it alongside your unlock code so we can help you if a code goes missing. We scrub that email from our records after one year. We never use it for marketing and never share it with anyone.
The contact form stores what you send — your message, and the name and reply address if you include them — so a person can read it and get back to you. We keep only recent messages and delete them once they're handled. That address is used to reply to you and for nothing else.
The site is hosted on Fly.io in the United States, so the small amount of data described above is processed on servers there. Connections are encrypted (HTTPS).
Want the email tied to your purchase deleted, or a copy of what we hold about you (it will be a short list)? Send us a message and we'll take care of it within a few days. Bride Society is made for adults planning parties; it isn't directed at children.
If we ever change how any of this works, this page changes with it — the date at the top tells you when.